I’m Envious of Your Trip

Just as the weather turns, I begin to think about escaping the cold and inevitable snow and ice. Usually, when I weigh the advantages of warmer climes over the temperate ones, the four-season locales get the edge and I realize it is less about the weather and more about the travel. In thinking about this […]

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S.W.E.R.N.Y

“Each person is only given so many evenings and each wasted evening is a gross violation against the natural course of your only life.” That is a quote by this guy: Charles Bukowski was a prolific writer of poems, short stories, and novels. Above and beyond all those words, I happened across the above quote […]

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Uncharted Waters

Thirty years ago tomorrow, when most of you will read this, I kissed a boy. He wasn’t any ordinary boy. He was the boy I would eventually give/lose my virginity to. (It was a square deal; he was a virgin as well.) How have three decades gone by? Moreover, how is it that I have […]

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Everyday Bravery

When was the last time you marched into the dark with only the soft glow of an idea you strongly believed in? I found this question on a list with forty-nine other “mind-freeing” questions. There were the standard ones like: If you won $1,000,000.00, would you quit your job? What’s your greatest fear? Who do […]

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Care to Play?

When Rob and I were first dating we’d spend a ridiculous amount of time talking, usually on the phone and late into the night. It was then, in the early stages of “get to know you,” that I got an inkling that Rob was a pretty bright guy. There was one particular litmus test which […]

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Force(d) (out) of Habit

                          There are some things in my life which I have loved wholly, deeply, and passionately. I would pursue these with the drive of a hungry lioness with cubs to feed and an elderly antelope in sight. I went after them — fervently. […]

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Winter Euthanasia

Winter, for many who live in New England, is a season for outdoor fun: skiing, skating, snowshoeing, snowball fights, snow angels. All those things that make the cold less so due to the offset found in winter’s enjoyment. It is also a season of special chores: shoveling, sanding, salting, getting children in and out — […]

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